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WELCOME to September, 2008 - 'NEWS OF HOPE'

             

                                           

SEPT 2008 NEW SCHOOL YEAR 'News of Hope'
The new school year brings much excitement, thrill of new adventure AND loads of STRESS!

Students are plunged back into the stress of scrutinizing peers, competitiveness, class schedules and study demands, personal achievement and parental expectations, and an abundance of flirtations with subsequent dating and the unavoidable emotional ups and downs.

Parents are bombarded with their teen/young adult anxieties, demands, need for transportation, money, money, money, personal expectations and fears over how the kids are or aren’t doing, WHO their dating, WHAT they’re doing on those dates, and
their own unavoidable emotional ups and downs!

Our September “News of Hope” includes some helpful insights and info to help you be ready to guide your teen and young adult kids armed with more knowledge and confidence.

SEPTEMBER “NEWS OF HOPE” CONTENTS
• "The Heavy Lifting of Adolescence": How Clothing Fits in
• What 93% of Parents Do NOT Know about their Teens and STRESS
• ANNOUNCING NEW STRESS MANAGEMENT WORKBOOK from LEGACY!
• Must KNOW for College Freshman: Beware the FRESHMAN 15!


Pics above:
Pic 1 and 2 - In New York City at the 2008 National Speakers Association Convention - out about town with new friends from the Ohio State NSA Chapter. GREAT people! GREAT time! GREAT town!

Pic 3 - For those who know the remodel/relandscape saga, it's all done and we're loving it! The Zen area of our new garden!
"The Heavy Lifting of Adolescence": How Clothing Fits in

In an article for the New York Times written in April of 2007, Lesley Jane Seymour recounts a trip to the mall with her 11 year old daughter. As her daughter and two friends tried on their skinny jeans and T-shirts in the fitting room of popular retailer Abercrombie and Fitch, she chatted with another mother, Sally Conrad who was shopping with her daughter Julia, 13, and asked her why Abercrombie was their favorite store.

''It's not really about clothes,'' Ms. Conrad said. ''At this age it's important for them to feel like they're part of a larger club. And this does it.''

Daniel T. Cook, an associate professor of advertising at the University of Illinois, said that clothes shopping gives tweens a safe place in which to do some of the heavy lifting of adolescence.

''They get to select and survey a world of identities and selves that are presented out there,'' he said. ''It almost has a sense of ritualistic or magical timeout.''

An increasing emphasis on identity and its relation to belonging has driven many teens to adopt adult-like measure of self image maintenance, particularly around back-to-school time.

Patrick Healey, in the New York Times September 3, 2007, writes: The back-to-school rush has reached a feverish pitch in New York and across the region. But increasingly, especially for teenagers in affluent suburbs “where reputations and cliques solidify faster than cold gravy, it is less about pencils and notebooks and more about the high-gloss, high-expense business of personal appearance.”

According to Irma Zandl, a Manhattan consultant who studies trends among teenagers in 2007 Japanese hair straightening, Brazilian bikini waxing, teeth whitening at a dental day spa and eyebrow sculpturing were among teenagers’ “to-do” lists before beginning a new school year.

''These girls are going to school with girls just like them who have a very discerning eye,'' Zandl said. ''Everything has to be perfect. The school is where the drama is, and the more perfect you are, the smoother your way will be.''

According to Healey, teens focus on back to school in different ways. Last year, Lauren Zeluck, 15, was so nervous that she cried for five hours the night before. Sam Berg, a sophomore, has already planned her outfit: striped jeans, a pink collared shirt and a tank top with spaghetti straps.

''I feel like high school changes you so much,'' said Samantha Chaplin, 15. Earlier that day, her brown hair had received rivers of blond highlights, and a slight man named Sid had plucked her eyebrows with a piece of twisted thread. ''When we were in middle school, it was the outfit,'' she said. ''Now, it's the whole package.''

From:

"Tweens 'R' Shoppers", by Lesley Jane Seymour, the New York Times, April 22, 2007

"“Reading, Writing and Body Waxing; A Back-to-School List for the Image-Conscious Teenager” by Patrick Healey, the New York Times, September 3, 2003

                   

                     

What 93% of Parents Do NOT Know about Stress and Their Teens!
Study Finds School Pressure Contributes to Teen Drug Use

On August 7, 2008, CADCA (Community Anti-Drug Coalitions of America) brought to light a significant finding on motives for teen drug use with particular concern about the growing trend in unprescribed prescription drug use:

According to the 2007 Partnership Attitude Tracking Study of 6,511 teens (PATS Teens), released by the Partnership for a Drug-Free America, the number one reason teens see for using drugs is to deal with the pressures and stress of school. In this nationally projectable study (margin of error +/- 1.6 percent),
73 percent of teens reported that school stress is the primary reason for drug use, indicating that teens´ perceptions of motivating factors for using drugs are dramatically different than past research has indicated.

An accompanying 2007 Partnership study of parents’ attitudes about teen drug use, released in June, showed that parents severely underestimate the impact of stress on their teens’ decision to use drugs. Only 7 percent of parents believe that teens might use drugs to cope with stress.

“A wide disconnect exists between what teens are thinking and feeling and what parents believe about their teens when it comes to attitudes about drug use,”
said Steve Pasierb, president and CEO of the Partnership.

“This is a pivotal opportunity for parents to understand what motivates today’s teens to engage in this type of risky behavior, and to communicate the very real dangers and risks, while offering their kids support and guidance on dealing with pressure in a healthy way.”

In previous PATS Teens studies, when teen respondents were asked to select from a number of reasons for using drugs, the number one reason (65 percent) selected was to “feel cool.” The 2007 study was the first to offer the option of selecting school stress as a motivator, one which nearly 3 out of 4 teens (73 percent) strongly agreed with. This was followed closely by “feeling cool” (65 percent) and “feeling better about themselves” (65 percent).

Over the past decade, studies have indicated a steady changing trend in what teens perceive as the motivations for using drugs. The “to have fun” rationales are declining, while motivations to use drugs to solve problems are increasing.
Overall Teen Drug Use Declining; Prescription Drug Abuse Disturbingly High Among Nation’s Youth

The 2007 PATS Teens study confirms that overall substance abuse remains in steady decline among teens. Marijuana use is in its tenth consecutive year of decline, down 30 percent since 1998 alone. Teen use of Ecstasy, inhalants and methamphetamine has continued a multi-year, significant decline, and use of both alcohol and cigarettes continue to decrease.

Today, parents need to be aware of the serious concern nationwide about teens’ ongoing intentional abuse of prescription and over-the-counter medications.

Many teens mistakenly believe the abuse of medicines is less dangerous than abuse of illegal drugs.

According to the survey:
• 1 in 5 teens (4.4 million) has abused a prescription medication
• Nearly 1 in 5 teens (4.2 million) has already abused a prescription painkiller
• 41 percent of teens think it’s safer to abuse a prescription drug than it is to use illegal drugs

“Teens continue to take their lives into their own hands when they intentionally abuse prescribed medications, said Pasierb. “Whether it’s to get high or deal with stress, or if they mistakenly believe it will help them perform better in school or sports, teens don’t realize that when used without a prescription, these medicines can be every bit as harmful as illegal street drugs.”

To help parents start and maintain open, honest dialogue with their kids about the risks of drugs and alcohol, and for more
information visit www.TimeToTalk.org

To see the full article: visit Source: "CADCA Article on Teens and Stress – August 7, 2008"

LEGACY OF HOPE identifies teens troubled by stress, drugs, emotional coping and more

  
                         

What in the World is “Freshman 15”?
Article by LEGACY's summer intern and Chapman University undergraduate: Yuri Choi
It is our pleasure to include articles written from young people in the midst of the issues themselves. Valuable perspectives for us adults.


Imagine being a young freshman college student your first week of school. You walk into the cafeteria and there is a buffet-style breakfast, lunch, and dinner all day long. You grab the beef ravioli covered in Alfredo sauce and fried chicken that you rarely have back at home when your mom was cooking. After spraying Parmesan cheese on your ravioli, you head for the pizza and fries bar where you also pick up some ranch for dipping both. Then you grab some cola at the drink bar, and you definitely can’t forget the dessert bar where there is unlimited frozen yogurt and carrot cakes. Amazing, she thought, my mom would never make this at home, and I can have this everyday now!

Then the night comes, and you are lured into a couple of fraternity parties where kegs are being untapped faster than you can finish your beer, and bottles of liquor everywhere. Once you’ve had your fair amount of drinks at about 4 am, you are looking for a sober ride to take care of the drunk munchies at Taco Bell.

This may be a typical weekend day and night for an average freshman in college. This is also the perfect formula for the excessive weight gain that some college students inevitably have to face in their first semester of college. And this rather devastating phenomenon also has a special term – the dreadful “Freshman 15.”

You ask any recent college student or graduates these days and they should be familiar with this term. It derives from the idea that due to the unhealthy eating, sleeping, and drinking habits, a typical freshman is to gain about 15 pounds on average. Free of adult/parental supervision for the first time for many freshmen, these habits develop and snowball into a very harmful cycle.

So should the college-bound really fear the “Freshman 15”? According to a recent research article, "The ‘freshman fifteen' (the ‘freshman five’ actually): Predictors and Possible Explanations" by Holm-Denoma, J.M., Vohs, K.D., & Heatherton, T.F. in Health Psychology, 27, while students were gaining weight during their early freshman year of college, the average weight gain was only 3.5 lbs for men and 4 lbs for women. The 'freshman fifteen' is more realistically the 'freshman five.' While this is still a disconcerting weight gain for many, it is not as extreme as the myth of the 'freshman fifteen.'

However, it is still true that students are predisposed to unhealthy eating and lifestyle changes in their first year of college. So what can you do as a parent to make sure that your son or daughter does not suffer from detrimental weight gain as a freshman?

Holm-Denoma & Heatherton's "freshman 15" study notes that one of the most remarkable predictors of weight gain is the relationship a child has with his or her parents prior to going to college. The impact differed between men and women.

Men were more likely to gain weight if they had critical parents between the times they were seniors in high school to college, whereas women gained more weight if they had uncritical parents who encouraged them to be more independent. The research suggests that these results may be due to the different ways men and women cope with stress caused by their parents.

When men have critical parents who create conflicts in their lives, they are more likely to go out in a social setting and increase their alcohol and food consumption to relieve the tension. When women are put into stressful situations, they are more likely to restrict their food intake, leading to eating disorders such as anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa. This explains why 90 to 95% of the eating disorder patients are women, and they usually come from have very critical, perfectionist families.

Good parenting may seem tricky at this point. Whether critical towards your child or not, it seems that he or she may end up eating and choosing less healthy behaviors in their first year of college.

But don't panic! Instead,
* Educate them about healthy eating. This does not mean that your kids should start a calorie-counting log immediately, but do remind them the importance of a balanced meal, even in the tempting all-you-can-eat cafeteria.
* Suggest to (don't TELL) them to turn down the pizza bar for a salad bar at least once a day to eat their vegetables.
* Encourage your son or daughter to set realistic goals to help them from consuming unnecessary sweets and junk food, such as only allowing themselves to eat dessert once every 2 days.
* Ask your college kids if they would be able to follow an exercise plan. Exercising not only helps them keep a healthy weight, but it is can help stabilize their moods. Many freshmen in college have a later class start time than they did in high school. What about a 20-30 minute jog two to three times a week before classes start?
* Encourage a quick breakfast to jump-start their metabolism. This routine will allow them to be alert for their classes and feel good for the rest of the day.
* Exploring their new school’s gym might also be a great way to make new friends their first year!

Another important factor is alcohol consumption. Telling them directly “Don’t drink because you are not 21 yet and that is illegal,” will not stop them from taking their free beers at fraternity parties they are invited to.

Give them some facts and room to think about them:
“Did you know that a regular beer is 150 to 200 calories?
Drink 3 beers, and it is more than the calories of a regular meal!” (http://www.beer100.com/beercalories.htm).

And if your kids thought taking shots of hard liquor is less fattening for them, let them know that a regular shot is still about 100 calories. Alcohol over all has the second highest calorie density of all food types! (http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Alcohol-Makes-You-Fat&id=601915) In addition, alcohol slows down the body’s ability to burn fat in general.

Even with regular work-outs, alcohol can create a special layer of fat on the stomach to hide the wonderfully toned muscles one might have underneath the layer.
In addition to these caloric facts, many college students binge drink, and this is of course potentially lethal and for their liver functions.

Now you can tell your young adult children when entering college that Freshman 15 is a myth, but Freshman 5 is still quite true. It is important that they pay attention to what they consume, whether it is food or alcohol, because they are not living with their parents any more and this sudden freedom can lead to very unhealthy eating habits.

The most important thing to remind them is that they are not completely free of your supervision just yet. Let them know that you are still a big part of their lives by sending them caring e-mails or making short phone calls to check in on them.

Although getting excessive with these is not a good idea, most freshmen in college will secretly appreciate your small gestures to show them that you care when they are away from you for the first time in their lives. Such guidance and care will go long ways in helping your first year college kids to stay healthy and happy.


References:
Holm-Denoma, J.M., Vohs, K.D., & Heatherton, T.F. (2008. January). The 'freshman fifteen' (the freshman five' actually): Predictors and possible explanations. Health Psychology, 27(1), S3-S9. from PsychINFO.

Hoffman, D.J., Policastro, P., Quick, V., & Lee, S.K. (2006, Jul-Aug). Changes in Body Weight and Fat Mass of Men and Women in the First Year of College: A Study of the 'Freshman 15'. Journal of American College Health, 55(1), 41-45. from PsychINFO.


LEGACY OF HOPE is great for College students, too! Susie is an NCAA-approved speaker as well. Check it out!

HELP WITH STRESS FOR SCHOOL, OFFICE, AND HOME from DR. KEN and SUSIE VANDERLIP!

De-Stress for Success® (DSFS) - The Workbook
will be out by year-end!

Susie Vanderlip and Dr. Ken Vanderlip have been presenting the De-Stress for Success® (aka Thrive, Don't Just Survive) workshops for the last 16 years.

Soon the workbook will be available including a DVD that guides the inexperienced through yoga for the office and classroom (relaxing stretches you can do in regular clothes!), and Guided Meditations by both Dr. Ken and Susie. Dr. Ken's meditations are gleaned from using guided light meditations in his private clinical practice for over 25 years.

His deep resonant voice has guided hundreds to a place of peace, calm and problem resolution that profoundly enriches people's lives.

Susie's meditations have encouraged thousands of teens, teachers and school counselors to relax, refresh and find new options in their lives.

The Workbook will refresh your body, your mind and your spirit with an amazing set of tools and techniques derived from:
* Clinical Psychology
* Martial Arts
* Dance
* 12-Step Programs
* Meditation (Actualism)
* Progressive Muscle Relaxation
* Emotional Self-Defense©
* Yoga for the Office/Classroom

Available for purchase soon! Watch for announcement and start thinking of those who could use help with the stress in their lives most! Maybe a perfect Christmas gift!

Check online at our Store for availability!

 


NOW IS THE TIME TO BOOK YOUR 2008-2009 LEGACY OF HOPE PROGRAM!
ABOUT THE LEGACY OF HOPE PROGRAM

LEGACY OF HOPE is a one-woman theatrical presentation in which Susie Vanderlip portrays 8 different characters dealing with alcohol and drug abuse, teen pregnancy, gangs, AIDS, self-harm, divorce, suicide and more of today's social concerns.

LEGACY OF HOPE is about 'emotional wisdom' - understanding our feelings, where they come from, then talking them out with the safe and supportive people in the world BEFORE acting upon those feelings -- so we can make more sane and livable choices.

For more information and to book a program, 1-800-707-1977 or visit us on the web.
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