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Welcome
to August 2010 'News of Hope'
August is a month of mixed emotions
for many youth and adults as we cling
to that ever-so-fleeting sense of
carefree hot summer days while staring
down the start of school with every
day''s passing. There is the sense of
loss as leisure-time starts slipping
away and yet mixed with the excitement
of a new beginning, new friends, new
assignments, new experiences.
This summer has been a very special
one for us at LEGACY because it
included some truly uplifting
conferences for both youth and adults
including the National Center for
Youth Issues, 4-H in Washington and
ending in July with the International
DARE Conference in Cincinnati, Ohio.
Just back from the International DARE
Conference in late July, this event
was an experience to long be
remembered. Eighteen hundred law
enforcement officers from all 50
states and numerous other countries
converged for 3 days of prevention
training, camaraderie, and dedication
to the well-being of kids. It was
memorable and heartwarming.
The Opening Ceremonies on Tuesday,
July 20th were exciting and electric
as officers marched in carrying flags
from every state and every country
accompanied by lively local youth
representing the children DARE works
to protect.
It was a major honor to present LEGACY
OF HOPE® as the opening keynote to
the ceremony and a joy for us to
jointly present three DE-STRESS FOR
SUCCESS® Workshops to help relieve
the stress and pressures of DARE
officers from around the world. See
more pictures on our website photo
album.
We also attended informative workshops
addressing numerous current alcohol
and drug prevention issues - including
medical marijuana and it''s perception
by youth.
It was also a great delight to provide
a Teacher In-Service the last week in
July for Benton County Schools in
Camden, Tennessee. As their school
year starts early in August, they
started early to prepare; and the
enthusiasm of their 150 teachers was
palpable and contagious!
As we roll into the new school year,
we will continue to keep you informed
of critical prevention issues for your
youth and families.
Contents
• Police Challenged by Crashes
Involving Prescription Drugs
• Teen Trend - TRUNKING
• Healthy Choice Messages and
Prevention: LEGACY OF HOPE for new
school year
• Opinions Wanted: Teen Maternity
Clothing Line
• Stress is a Fact of Life --or is
it?
Pictured Above - photos from the
International DARE Conference:
Pic 1: Conference Logo
Pic 2 - Lively local Cincinnati youth
who enthusiastically participated in
the exciting Opening Ceremonies
Pic 3: Susie and Ken Vanderlip with
Scott Gilliam - Director of Training,
DARE America
Pic 4: Law enforcement officers
attended from around the world
including a dedicated team we met from
Brazil pictured here.
Index
to past Legacy Newsletters by topic.
Police
Challenged by Crashes Involving
Prescription Drugs
July
28, 2010
Join Together News Summary
Car crashes involving prescription
drugs are often harder to detect and
prosecute than those involving alcohol
or illicit drugs, the New York Times
reported July 25.
Drunk-driving crashes are declining,
but law-enforcement officials say that
more people are being charged with
driving under the influence of
prescription drugs. However, unlike
with alcohol, there''s no standard for
intoxication for prescription
painkillers, anti-anxiety medications,
and other legal drugs. Also, taking
such drugs (alone or in combination
with other substances or alcohol) has
widely different effects on different
people -- all of which makes
prosecuting such offenses harder.
"How do we balance between people
who legitimately need their
prescriptions and protecting the
public?" said Mark Neil of the
National Traffic Law Center. "It
becomes a very delicate balance."
Blood-alcohol content is the standard
to measure drunk driving, and some
states have made any detectable level
of illicit drugs the presumption for
intoxication. But that won''t work for
prescription drugs, which are legal.
Police departments are training
officers to detect impairment by
prescription drugs, and experts said
that prevention and education also
must play a role. "We have a
pretty clear message in this country
that you don''t drink and drive,"
said U.S. drug czar Gil Kerlikowske.
"We need very much to have a
similar message when it comes to
drugs."
In court, people accused of driving
under the influence of prescription
drugs often claim they didn''t realize
they were impaired. Prosecutors
counter that such drugs have warning
labels that should be heeded, but
juries often sympathize with the
drivers.
"Because most people on the jury
will also likely be taking
prescription drugs for some ailment,
whether it''s Lipitor or allergy pills
or whatever it might be, they might
think, ''I don''t want that to become
criminal,''" said Maryland
attorney general Douglas Gansler.
Read
additional comments on the Join
Together site
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Let
LEGACY
OF
HOPE®
Characters
Mesmerize
your
youth
and
Infuse
Healthy
Choice
Messages
(Seen
above
is
"Julio,"
one
of
eight
characters
Susie
Vanderlip
portrays
that
are
dealing
with
alcohol
and
drugs,
teen
pregnancy,
gangs,
AIDS,
bullying,
self-harm,
suicide,
grief
and
loss.
They
are
startlingly
real
and
profoundly
powerful
at
opening
up
the
minds
and
hearts
of
teens
and
adults.)
Funding
for
prevention
in
schools
is
down,
but
prescription
drug
abuse
is
up,
alcohol
abuse
is
still
outrageously
high,
and
teens
still
lack
sufficient
brain
power
to
make
the
right
choices
without
HEALTHY
CHOICE
MESSAGES.
Prevention
is
proven
to
lower
use.
It
is
the
INCREASE
in
messages
about
consequences
and
dangers
of
various
use
and
abuse
that
helps
our
kids
MAKE
THE
HEALTHY
CHOICES.
make
IT
HEALTHY
IN
2011!"
LEGACY
OF
HOPE®
outreach
includes:
*
School
assemblies
*
Coaching
of
troubled
teens
during
the
school
day
*
Survey
of
students
to
reveal
those
in
need
*
Parent/community
education
and
awareness
programs
*
Teacher
In-Service
and
Staff
Development
Contact
us
for
2010-2011
programming.
Call
at
800-707-1977
or
email.
For
more
about
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Teen
Trend - TRUNKING!
Teens
are very inventive in
maneuvering around authority
figures and restrictions.
Their prefrontal cortex of the
brain, which is growing from the
age of 12 to 24 - 27 years old,
provides us with impulse control
and the ability to evaluate
consequences. As a result, teens
have enough brain growth to
creatively subvert rules and
authority figures, but not
enough to foresee the many
dangerous consequences. This is
obvious when, every few years,
new teen trends emerge as teens
find creative new ways to put
themselves in danger and create
enormous anxiety for parents!
Nearly every state has
restrictions on new teen drives
including, as shared by
16-year-old Karla Greene.
“Once you get your license you
can only have family members in
the car.”
But teens who feel
inconvenienced by the new rules
have found a way to get around
them. It’s called “trunking.”
As shared in an article by Connect
with Kids, a multi-media,
education company focused on
helping educators and parents
teach life skills, prevention,
character, health, and wellness
many kids fail to realize that
trunking is not only illegal-
it’s incredibly dangerous.
“I’ve ridden in the trunk a
few times,” says 20-year-old
David Mack, “We had too many
people in the car and I was the
smallest one, so it all came
down to me.”
A very sad example occurred when
best friends Chris Snyder and
Scott Atchison were riding in
the trunk of a car and the car
hit a tree. The trunk lid popped
open in the crash, ejecting them
onto the highway where they were
both run over. Sadly, both teens
died.
Bob Wilson of the National
Safety Council says, “We’re
trying to keep our teens safe -
and it’s proven that by
restricting other teenage
passengers it reduces risk to
them.” He adds, “It’s the
parents’ responsibility for
getting their teenager through
the teenage years safely.
Certainly the trunking issue
comes into play- cell phone use,
alcohol, drug use, seatbelt use-
all of those are parent
responsibilities to make sure
their teen is compliant.”
Furthermore, says Wilson:
"I think the consequences
[for trunking] should be very
severe. If that child is already
driving, revoking driving
privileges for a period of time
would certainly be
appropriate."
Sue
Scheff of Broward County
Parenting Teens Examiner suggests,
“Experts say parents need to
make the driving laws explicit.
* If you find that your child
has been “trunking,” make
the consequences severe. Suspend
all driving privileges for a
period of time. (Bob Wilson,
National Safety Council)
* Maintain a zero-tolerance
policy with your teen regarding
alcohol - on and off the road.
(National Safety Council)
* If your state does not have
teen driving restrictions, set
your own. Make sure your teen is
able to drive safely before they
drive at night or with friends
in the car. (Allstate Insurance)
* Any unbelted passenger is at
extreme risk in an accident-
whether they are in the cabin or
in the trunk. Insist that your
child always wears a seatbelt.
(Bob Wilson, National Safety
Council)
Let
LEGACY OF HOPE Assemblies awaken
kids to How their brain works in
making healthy choices!
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Opinions
Wanted: Teen
Maternity
Clothing Line
On July 20th,
Sue Scheff of
Broward County
Parenting Teens
Examiner share
yet another bit
of mind-boggling
news:
Forever 21, a
trendy clothing
store for teens,
has just added a
new department -
introducing Love
21 Maternity
clothing line.
"Is this
promoting or
influencing teen
pregnancy?"
Scheff asks.
It is true that
when pregnant, a
woman/girl does
need clothing
that is
comfortable and
there is nothing
wrong with
wanting to be in
style at the
same time.
However, I agree
with Scheff that
the question
needs to be
asked, "What
is this saying
to our teen
culture? Is it a
green light and
acceptable?
When you speak
with many teen
moms, although
they love their
child, they
would not
recommend
getting pregnant
as a teenager.
Scheff says that
the clothing
line is very
nice, "but
let''s be real,
babies having
babies is not
easy and we
don''t want it
to be a
trend."
Unfortunately,
teen pregnancy
is higher in the
United States
than nearly all
other
industrialized
nations. By
making it more
fashionable, fun
and accessible
to the average
teen girl, are
we obscuring the
life-impacting
consequences of
teen pregnancy?
Should every
piece of
clothing include
a Warning, like
packs of
cigarettes,
"This
clothing comes
with a life-long
responsibility
for caring for a
child."
Teen maternity
clothing line:
What do you
think?
Your
opinion is
welcome. Visit
our blog.
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Stress is a fact of Life...
or is it?
69%
of people surveyed recognized
the benefits of mental health
support and stress management,
only 7% are seeking help to
cope in the past year.
Why?
* Maybe down deep we believe
that worry will control future
outcomes, so if we deal with
our "worry," we''ll
lose control of the future.
But worry is really just FEAR
- False Expectations Appearing
Real!
* We also get an unending
stream of messages to just
"escape" from the
stress into food, drink,
prescription drugs, sex,
gambling - a whole variety of
supposed quick-fix solutions
for individuals that make
considerable money for
corporations. Hmm...
* Or perhaps we''re just
supposed to "handle it
all" and that getting
help is a sign of weakness ,
failure or defeat.
It is said that the definition
of insanity is doing the same
thing over and over and
expecting a different result.
Try something different - try
PEACE and SERENITY. You may
just like it.
Contact
us for more info, to book a
Workshop or purchase the
De-Stress for Success® System
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